Relationship Health Check

Think about the last month in your relationship. There are no right or wrong answers, and one hard month does not define a relationship. Private. Your employer never sees your answers. You can stop anytime.

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1. I feel listened to by my partner.

   Not at allNow and thenMost weeksAlmost always

2. Our disagreements end in shouting, insults or long silences.

   Not at allNow and thenMost weeksAlmost always

3. I feel lonely even when we are together.

   Not at allNow and thenMost weeksAlmost always

4. We have some time together that is just for the two of us.

   Not at allNow and thenMost weeksAlmost always

5. I keep quiet about what I think to avoid a fight.

   Not at allNow and thenMost weeksAlmost always

6. There is hurt between us that we have not talked through.

   Not at allNow and thenMost weeksAlmost always

7. I am happy with the affection and closeness between us.

   Not at allNow and thenMost weeksAlmost always

8. We argue about money, family or the children without sorting it out.

   Not at allNow and thenMost weeksAlmost always

9. I trust my partner to be honest with me.

   Not at allNow and thenMost weeksAlmost always

10. I feel afraid of how my partner will react.

    Not at allNow and thenMost weeksAlmost always

11. My partner checks my phone, controls the money or limits who I see.

    Not at allNow and thenMost weeksAlmost always

12. My partner has pushed, hit, choked me or forced me into sexual acts.

    Not at allNow and thenMost weeksAlmost always